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The Birth Partner Toolkit

$29.99

A calm, practical guide for supporting birth with confidence and care

Birth can feel overwhelming for partners. You want to help, but you’re not always sure what to do or say when things get intense.

This toolkit was created to give partners clear, grounded guidance so they can show up with confidence, steadiness, and love, especially for families who don’t plan to have a doula present at their birth but still want doula-informed support to reference along the way.

Written by Melissa Rose Hirsch, DONA Certified Birth Doula, this digital guide offers practical tools, simple language, and nervous-system-aware support for every phase of labor. It’s designed to be easy to return to, reassuring in the moment, and supportive without feeling overwhelming.

A calm, practical guide for supporting birth with confidence and care

Birth can feel overwhelming for partners. You want to help, but you’re not always sure what to do or say when things get intense.

This toolkit was created to give partners clear, grounded guidance so they can show up with confidence, steadiness, and love, especially for families who don’t plan to have a doula present at their birth but still want doula-informed support to reference along the way.

Written by Melissa Rose Hirsch, DONA Certified Birth Doula, this digital guide offers practical tools, simple language, and nervous-system-aware support for every phase of labor. It’s designed to be easy to return to, reassuring in the moment, and supportive without feeling overwhelming.

What’s Inside

  • A clear breakdown of the phases of labor

  • The partner’s role in birth and how to step into it

  • What to say and what not to say during labor

  • Hands-on comfort techniques with diagrams

  • Advocacy tools for hospital and birth center settings

  • A partner checklist and hospital bag essentials

  • A final-stretch care calendar with doula tips

Everything is designed to be easy to read, easy to reference, and easy to use in real time.

Who This Is For

  • Partners who want to feel prepared and useful

  • Birthing people who want their partner to feel confident

  • First-time parents or those wanting a calmer birth experience

  • Anyone who wants doula-informed guidance without a doula in the room